The White Peril 白禍

Which of you wiseasses hid the receipt/claim check-thing I need to pick up my passport at the Embassy this Friday? This is not funny....

The human soul craves ritual; one of the things I'm doing to keep the sense that Atsushi's around the apartment is keeping the vase I bought him for his birthday a few years ago filled. I like lushness and riotous color and things, but I can't decide whether as a general practice, it's better in this part of the room to go with Attention-Getting:



or Steadfast and Unassuming:



The lighting isn't so hot in either shot (that inept photography thing again), but if anyone wants to weigh in, I'm open to thoughts from a more experienced flower arranger. My taste in the past tended more to houseplants and potted herbs.

One of the best parts of being gay, as I experience it, is that you have the rich emotional responses of a woman and the insulating obtuseness and detachment of a man. One of the worst parts is that you can't always choose which is ascendant at a given moment.

I didn't actually make a spectacle of myself when I took Atsushi to the airport yesterday; I just kind of felt as if I'd had the wind knocked out of me. Since I had to get back to the office, I couldn't wait until his plane took off. I had to content myself with leaving the observation deck before his flight was scheduled to leave the gate. Haneda Airport, which handles most domestic flights in and out of Tokyo, is actually in the same galaxy as the city (unlike Narita, the airport where most international flights go, which is way the hell out in Chiba Prefecture). It was just turning to night from dusk. You could see part of the incomprehensibly vast lit-up Tokyo skyline across the bay, and under it in the foreground, the planes docked at the departure gates. Two of my favorite sights in civilization (rendered with my appalling, amateurish digi-cam skills in the banner). The rain had stopped, but there was a lot of mist. It flattered both the lights and the JAL and ANA planes (which look a bit cheap to me in strong sunlight). Jets drifted down like big moths and shot into the sky like spears.

This was one of those vacation weeks that are busier than going to the office. The only meals we didn't have at restaurants with friends who wanted to find out how Atsushi is doing in West Buttf**k, we had here with friends who wanted to see what the apartment looks like now. ("Like there's finally a fag living here" was the verdict. I'm not sure how I feel about that.) Too much food, too much drink, and endless assurances that everyone's looking after me while he's working in the provinces. I wished I didn't have to leave him at the airport, but we'd been surrounded by people so persistently since Sunday that a part of me was relieved to head home to the apartment and not have anyone to look after except the plants. Just another month and we'll be leaving for Bali together. Not that long to wait.